Salty Truth Friday - Networking isn't Begging
π Salty Truth Friday Networking Isn’t Begging. It’s Building Relevance. By Christine Sharma Founder, Salty Dog Talent Consulting Somewhere along the way, networking got rebranded as: “Cold messaging strangers asking for favors.” No wonder people hate it. No wonder it feels awkward. No wonder it feels desperate. But here’s the truth: Networking isn’t begging. It’s positioning. And when done well, it doesn’t feel transactional at all. π§ Why Networking Feels Gross Most people approach networking with one goal: “I need something.” A job. A referral. An introduction. An opportunity. That energy shifts the entire dynamic. When your first move is: “Hi, I saw you work at X. Can you refer me?” You’ve skipped the relationship part entirely. And humans are wired to respond to relevance — not requests. π How Hiring Actually Works Let me pull back the curtain a bit. When hiring managers receive a referral, they’re not thinking: “Oh good, someone asked.” They’re thinking: Does this person a...